Title:
Ecological Relevant Cognitive Behavior Therapy: The slogans and sayings of
Twelve Step Programs and Their Use in Chemical Dependency Treatment.
Author:
John D. McPeake, Ph.D., C.A.S., M.A.C.T.A.
Abstract:
Twelve Step oriented therapies and Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT) both show
positive outcomes in treating chemical dependency. Twelve Step oriented
therapies include an "ecologically relevant" CBT component in the
many slogans and sayings that identify dysfunctional patterns of behavior and
thought and encapsulate constructive chemical dependency treatment strategies.
These slogans and sayings also help bridge the cultural gap between
professional treatment and Twelve Step Programs. In addition they provide
insight into important cognitive and behavioral issues in recovery, have
mnemonic benefits and sometimes appear to be able to produce rapid and
constructive cognitive changes. This paper reviews a sample of slogans and
sayings and offers suggestions for their utilization in clinical work.
Key
words: Twelve Step, Cognitive Behavior Therapy, slogans and sayings, clinical
tools, mnemonic devices, rapid cognitive change
Introductory
footnote: John D. McPeake, Ph.D., C.A.S., M.A.C.A.T.A., President, The Dublin
Group, Inc.: Behavioral Health Consultants, P.O. 129, Upper Jaffrey Road,
Dublin, NH, 03444, jmcpeakeC monad.net
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Ecological Relevant Cognitive
Behavior Therapy: The slogans and sayings of Twelve Step Programs and Their Use
in Chemical Dependency Treatment.
Introduction
Among contemporary schools of
therapy for chemical dependence Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT) is one of the
most widely research and demonstrably successful (Monti, P.M., Abrams, D.B.,
Kadden, R.M.& Cooney, N.L., 1989; Project Match 1997). CBT explores and
exposes patterns of thinking and behavior that are dysfunctional, attempting to
replace both with more adaptive strategies. Twelve Step based therapies also
produce successful treatment outcomes (Project Match 1997; McCrady, 1998) and
have the advantage of dovetailing with a unique, freely available,
international network. In part, Twelve Step approaches produce their effects
through an "ecological relevant" informal CBT approach implicit in
the extensive repertoire of slogans and sayings which recovering members of
Twelve Step Programs learn and practice. These slogans and sayings also expose
dysfunctional patterns of thought and behavior and offer pragmatic, real world
responses.
This paper examines the use
of slogans and sayings as CBT tools to treat clients. These slogans and sayings
provide an ecologically relevant mechanism and a contextual bridge allowing the
therapist to understand and use the language the patient experiences. The
therapist may then present clinical interventions that begin with this language
and support, re-interpret and discuss the underlying cognition and behavior.
The slogans and sayings also provide the therapist with rapid insight into the
cognitive world of the recovering person. In addition, slogans and sayings have
mnemonic characteristics, which allow them to be easily retained and also
provide when divorced from their Twelve Step context pure CBT strategies, e.g.,
"Think the drink (drug) through." Slogans and sayings facilitate an
affective connection with the process of recovery. Finally, slogans and sayings
appear to have the potential to produce sudden and constructive rearrangements
of cognitive life.
After offering a clinical
illustration this paper continues with a summary of themes derived from
hundreds of slogans and sayings with suggestions for their utilization in
clinical work.
Case Illustration #1
William
was a 22 year old, unmarried, white, male, college student with a history of
substance use disorder, epilepsy and a mild stutter. William was referred to
our outpatient program by a family friend. William came from an intact, upper
SES family that included a sister several years older. William's father, owner
of a business, drank regularly in a controlled fashion and his mother, who was
the prime mover in seeking treatment for her son drank socially. On initial
evaluation William was smoking marihuana daily, ordering anxiolytic medication
via the internet and drinking regularly. His epilepsy was not well controlled
because of non-compliance with his medication regimen and his alcohol and other
drug use. As a result of his chemical dependence he had just barely completed
his junior year at college. William and his parents agreed to a rehabilitation
hospitalization and he was referred to a program in the Southwest. During
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senior year in school he saw a therapist occasionally and attended A.A.
irregularly. Prior to graduation William and two college friends were arrested
for attempting to import MDMA into the U.S. and although he graduated, William
was placed on federal probation. Subsequent to graduation William moved to
Metro Boston and sought employment. During outpatient therapy William was
compliant and polite but only moderately involved in his treatment plan..
During a particular therapy session as the consequences of William's alcohol
and other drug use were under review the therapist said: "William you
weren't always in trouble when you used, but every time you were in trouble you
had been using." The turn of phrase had a noticeable effect on William who
repeated the expression but personalized it, "I wasn't always in trouble
when I used, but every time I was in trouble I had been using. Yeah, That's
me." By his own report the idea embedded in the slogan was a new insight.
During subsequent sessions this slogan became a mantra for William and appeared
to be associated with an improvement in his motivation and commitment to
recovery. As he was also attending A.A. he reported that he heard the same
expression used and illustrated on several occasions by people, speaking in
A.A., enhancing his identification with the speaker and the program. He also
reported the not uncommon scenario that the slogan often "popped into his
head" unbidden and occasioned meditation on its meaning. William had
implicitly believed that his alcohol and other drug use were not related to the
problems and difficulties in his life. Fortuitously perhaps, this slogan
reorganized William's cognitions.
Major
Themes of Slogans and Sayings and Their Clinical Application
An
informal analysis of the author's collection of 141 slogans and sayings
suggests (Anonymous 1983) over a dozen thematic categories. Twelve of these
categories are listed below with a representative slogan or saying and
suggestions for how it has been utilized in a therapeutic context.
l.
Obsession and the First Drink or Drug
Individuals who suffer from
chemical dependence are often marked by their inability to predict when they
will over use a substance and the outcome of such over use. In consequence the
first drink or drug, which often triggers craving and compulsive use, is
immortalized in a number of slogans and sayings, i.e., "It's the first
drink (drug) that gets you drunk." Most recovering people are aware that
this is not literally true. They realize that first use often re-establishes
craving and usually results in a pattern of return to use with adverse
consequences. The slogan and others like it, however, suggest extraordinary
vigilance to initial use and its unpredictable consequences. This slogan leads
to a discussion about the assumption that, "I can drink or drug safely and
without consequences."
One
client was amazed at the notion that first use, itself triggered by cues worth
exploring, was the beginning of an obsessive compulsive chain. Until this point
in her therapy she had continued to believe that she could have a
"few" and it would be OK. She said that oddly this was both
dramatized and made humorous for her by an old man,
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with whom
she would not ordinarily identify, who at an A.A. meeting described his
unsuccessful strategy for staying sober. She said that he related he had heard
all about the danger of the first drink and so whenever he went into a bar he
would order that first drink and set it aside on the bar. Then he would drink
the second drink, the third and so on. He said with infectious good humor that
he had proved conclusively that it wasn't the first drink that was the problem.
She noted that listening to the humorous and selfeffacing old man was one of
several early turning points in her recovery.
This vignette is illustrative of the fact that slogans and sayings are the beginning of a dialogue that can occur within the individual, in individual counseling, or in a group setting. The dialogue productively raises questions about the implications of "first use" in a person suffering from chemical dependence. The slogan or saying then may become a mnemonic device that can store in memory all of the ideas associated with the discussion. And, as this slogan demonstrates, the added humor associated with hearing such a wry tale from another recovering person reduces defensiveness and accelerates identification.
2. The Specific Suggestion "Don't drink (Don't
Use!)!"
Despite
the fact that objective observers see the painfully obvious nature of this
issue, that drinking or using other psychoactive substances is the central
issue, it is remarkable how often the discovery that this is the case is a
little "sartori" for the recovering person. In addition, it is
remarkable how often recovering people enjoin each other not to use by
employing "Don't use!" both as a greeting, salutation and unendingly
repeated piece of self-talk. While such an injunction from a non-recovering person
may be angrily rejected, with identification with recovery and recovering
people, it becomes accepted and playful. Within recovery circles a day of not
using is regarded as a "miracle" because recovering people believe
that the natural tendency of the recovering person is to use and something
quite unusual must be actively happening to interfere with this powerfully
tendency. This slogan challenges the suggestion that "use" is not the
problem and that direct suggestion not to use is somehow taboo.
The following anecdote, related by a man in early
recovery, demonstrates the change in attitude toward this injunction that is
symptomatic of clinical progress. "This will sound pretty strange from a
person who believed that alcohol and other drugs were not the problem but
here's the way it is now. When I see people who are involved in A.A. or who are
trying to stay away from alcohol and other drugs, I usually say "Don't
drink!" in place of "Hello" or "Goodbye." Sometimes
people are surprised or even offended, even people who have been in recovery a
long time. "What do you mean," they sometimes say "I've been
sober three years." I say "Don't drink!" or alternatively
"Don't use!" for me, not for anyone else. Oh, I guess that I'll admit
when someone else hears "Don't drink!" it might focus his or her
attention on sobriety and not drinking or drugging. If it does that I'm glad
but basically I say it for me. I want to remind myself every chance I get of
what alcohol and other drugs did to me and what a life of sobriety in A.A. is
doing for me."
3. Other Specific Suggestions for Behavior Change
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Twelve
Step Programs are full of additional direct suggestions that frequently include
imagery and goal directed cognitive behavioral strategies. In fact, Twelve Step
Programs seem to have an implicit or covert theory that resembles clinical
hypnosis and other forms of suggestive therapeutics. From a theoretical
viewpoint: certain antecedent conditions enable a person to enter a particular
state of consciousness or awareness that allows them to do things that they
previously had difficulty doing. Members A.A. and N.A. believe that pain,
suffering and humiliation will eventually create in the chemically dependent
person a subjective state that is called "willingness (Twelve Steps and
Twelve Traditions, p.34 ff., 1981)." When this state has been achieved the
chemically dependent person will be able to follow suggestions that they had
previously been unable to follow. Often the chemically dependent person may report
that they "heard" or "understood" the suggestion for the
first time, in what appears to be a spontaneous or dramatic insight.
Corey had grown up in a family full of chemical
dependence. He was fond of saying that alcoholism didn't run in his family, it
"galloped." He had been to many A.A. and ALANON meetings with family
members. Now the court had mandated that Corey go to A.A. for himself or go to
jail, but he was having trouble with A.A. He felt that he knew a lot about A.A.
from his earlier experiences. He could sometimes predict the questions people
would ask and be ready with the answers. He felt he knew who was sincere and
who was just "using" A.A. to get out of trouble. He knew many of the
old timers in his area of the city because he had been to so many meetings with
his dad, who Corey said, "Never really got it." At a particular
meeting one of the old timers listening to Corey's complaints about his
difficulty in "getting" the program suggested to him that he should,
"Look for a way in, not a way out." The suggestion "stuck"
with Corey. He couldn't get it out of his head nor could he find the strategy
that would make the program work for him. Another A.A. member, noting Corey's
frequent comments at meetings about knowing all about it, but still not getting
it, suggested that Corey, "Take the cotton out of his ears and stuff it in
his mouth." So Corey adopted a policy of not speaking at meetings and just
listening, listening hard for the thing that would open up the program to him
as he knew it had to others. While listening he found that many of the people
whose presentation and recovery he respected had participated in a particular,
intensive, Twelve Step Study in another part of the city. Corey enrolled in
this program despite the fact that it was a 22 night commitment over 22 weeks.
For Corey that intensive Step study seemed to hold the key to a happy and
productive recovery. He realized that most of the people he had been
associating with were not really advocates of the Steps but were really "Two
Steppers" people who didn't drink and went to meetings but avoided Step
work. He said he should have known all along that the Steps were the A.A.
program. It was what had been missing for Corey, he had found a way into
recovery by listening. Corey subsequently became one of those A.A. members who
didn't say much, but when he spoke people listened.
4. Blaming People, Places and Things
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One of
the most common and accepted assumptions about chemical dependence is that
recovery is strongly causally related to "circumstances" or, worse,
"underlying causes." Chemically dependent people themselves are very
good at blaming "people, places and things" for their use. They
resist the need to first change their alcohol and other drug use behaviors,
often leaving this strategy until all else has failed. In fact, we have good
evidence that dependence is caused by use, and resulting genetically programmed
changes in midbrain neourophysiological systems, i.e., the ventral
tegmental-medial forebrain-nucleus accumbens axis (McLellan, A.T., Lewis,
O'Brien and Kleber, 2000), that subsequently do not respond well to executive
cortical functions. All the insight in the world isn't worth much, nor is
changing people, e.g. wives, friends and lovers, places, e.g., exchanging San
Francisco for Boston, or things, e.g., the new house will solve the problem.
The specific alcohol and drug use behaviors that are part of the chemically
dependent person need to be changed. Consistent group pressure is frequently
needed to accomplish this. The wisdom of Twelve Step programs has been that if
you deal with the alcohol and other drug use you can move forward, if you don't
you can't.
Alex had been going to A.A. for only a very short time
when he heard "Wherever you go there you are." in reference to a
geographic cure. Alex was a professional who had "started over"
several times in several cities. He felt that the Myth of Sisyphus described
his life. He'd move to a new city, he had very transferable computer skills,
and begin life again. Gradually over several years his alcohol and other drug
use would produce the same scenario he had experienced in his old location. His
life, like Sisyphus' rock, would role back down the hill to the very bottom and
he'd begin again rolling it uphill. He tried meditation, psychotherapy and
various wellness fads. When he heard this expression something clicked for him.
He saw that in every instance he had failed to significantly alter his
relationship with alcohol and other drugs. Now that he was staying put and
confronting his drug dependence something good seemed to be happening.
5. Change
The issue
of change as suggested above looms large for the alcohol and drug dependent
person. There is a specific temporal order to this change within Twelve Step
oriented approaches, and it begins with changing the alcohol and drug related
behaviors. Many slogans and sayings encapsulate this fact. These slogans
challenge the assumption that if the chemically dependent person changes the
circumstances that led to becoming drug dependent she will stop using.
George was dealing with the issues of cues and triggers
and discussing the issue in group therapy but he didn't really accept the
associated ideas as they were being presented. He was also attending A.A, meetings.
Subsequent to a particular A.A. meeting he came to group anxious to share a new
insight. He said that while he had thought he understood the cues and triggers
"thing" he had heard two expressions at that single meeting that
brought it a11 together for him. One speaker had noted that getting drunk was
like getting mugged, "You can't get mugged in a dark alley if you don't
walk in dark alleys." he added. The very next speaker had during his
qualification noted that, "If you keep going into the barber shop you're
going to get a haircut." George told the group that he'd been mugged
(metaphorically) so many times and he hadn't seen it coming and he'd had so
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many bad "haircuts." He said that after the
meeting he had had a dream in which he entered a bar and there were signs on
the wall that said, "We're going to take your money!" We're going to
beat up on you!" We're going to throw you out the door!" "We're
going to make you feel awful!" but the final sign said "And you'll be
back for more!!" George said he now "felt," not just understood,
what triggers and cues meant.
6. The Issue of Illness vs Morality
The issue
of whether chemical dependence is an illness, a social problem, or a moral
problem continues unabated despite sophisticated comparisons of drug dependence
with other chronic medical illnesses (McLellan, Lewis, O'Brien and Kleber,
2000). Nevertheless Twelve Step approaches have long championed the view that
drug dependent people are sick and need to admit that fact. With the admission
of illness and the rejection of the underlying assumption of
"badness" many of the otherwise incomprehensible aspects of recovery
make more sense and it becomes easier to participate in treatment.
John was
a college educated, articulate professional who resented people telling him how
to live. He felt he had a problem with alcohol and other drugs but had
tremendous difficulty accepting the idea that he had a chronic illness and
therefore accepting the idea that he needed regular treatment. While attending
an alcohol and drug intervention program for operating a vehicle under the
influence he was required to attend a twiceweekly group session and A.A. or
N.A. At an A.A. meeting he heard the following which he related at group. A
professional man at a meeting said something like this: "I think today of
just how much subtle, and sometimes not so subtle, damage we have done to the
beautiful, complex mechanism inside our skulls. Most of us do not have a wet
brain when we arrive for treatment but it will take many months of physical and
mental health before we can successfully think clearly and effectively.
Particularly during this early period, taking suggestions that are given to us
may well be a life saving proposition. Its not a normal state of affairs to subjugate
one's behavior to the suggestions of others but it is important to remember
that whether in a treatment center, under the care of a physician, but always
with the help of A.A. or N.A., we are very sick people with a life threatening
illness. Our fuzzy thinking, impulsive emotions, and labile moods cannot be
allowed to kill us. Remind yourself of the fact that your alcohol use has hurt
you badly. It has injured and abused the instrument that controls you, which in
many senses is you. Get out of the driver's seat for a while and only get back
in when others tell you they think you are ready. I try to remember, `I'm here
because I'm not all there."'
John brought the expression "I'm here because I'm not
all there." to group and wanted to discuss alcohol, drugs and brain
damage. This produced several very stimulating groups. He was particularly
interested in literature that suggested impairment of executive function and
decision making in early recovery. The existence of neuropsychological deficits
made the need for practical, down to earth treatment understandable to John and
allowed him to more readily accept help and direction from others.
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7. Utilization versus Analysis
Many
people find their initial experience with Twelve Step Programs difficult
because of their simplicity and directness, prioritizing specific types of
behavior above analysis of the "reasons for" or the
"meaning" or "explanation" of the person's chemical
dependence. In this sense Twelve Step Programs are like CBT training manuals
which focus on learning and practicing specific behaviors. A.A. culture enjoins
the newcomer do the following new behaviors: don't use for a day, go to
meetings every day, join an A.A. group, get a sponsor, follow the sponsor's
suggestions, get a job in the group, e.g., make coffee, set up the meeting,
travel with the group to commitments, sit in the front row, "Listen to
learn, learn to listen." etc. A.A. says to the newcomer "Learn these
new behaviors!" The slogan is "Utilize don't analyze." Many
people coming to Twelve Step Programs think they have to first figure out their
chemical dependency, figure out the "why." These programs in their
actual day to day enactment reject that idea and instead provide structured
behavioral training. It is worth noting that after behavior has been stabilized
there is a lot of opportunity for analysis, often called "Step work,"
but that comes at a later stage in the progression of recovery.
Like many highly credentialed professionals Martha, a
psychiatrist, was offended by what in her view was the unbelievable and
"stupid" simple mindedness of Twelve Step Programs. This was
epitomized by the blue and gold banners decorating the room where her first
N.A. meeting occurred. She was particularly offended by the "Keep it
Simple" banner because she appropriately regarded herself as richly
complex. Nevertheless she was forced to attend such meetings by her contract
with the Board of Registration in Medicine in the state where she had been
discovered self-prescribing and using opioids at work. She openly admitted to
her therapy group, another requirement of her contract, that she never would
have continued the participation at self-help meetings without the contract.
She had been in psychotherapy with another psychiatrist for many years and felt
it to be a much superior modality, although her therapeutic work had had no
impact on her opioid dependence. After another instance of opioid use turned up
on a urinalysis, her surveillance was intensified and Martha faced permanent
revocation of her medical license. Martha decided to try and do exactly what
her sponsor suggested to her. Six months later she related to the therapy group
that she had joined an N.A. group, was making coffee, which she never drank,
going on commitments, helping other addicted people, etc. She said her life had
changed, she didn't understand it. She'd figure that out some time later. Her
strategy at that time was "Fake it, `till you make it." "I'm
just doing it the way its laid out by my sponsor," she said "its
working and I don't care why."
8. Time: A Daily Program, A Present Time Orientation
Twelve Step Programs have something in common with Zen in
their orientation to time. Zen says, "When doing the dishes do the
dishes." Twelve Step Programs say look well to this day, "The past is
history the future's a mystery." The emphasis in both is on now, this
moment, being fully in the present. This does not obviate the need to plan for
the future, but it does encourages awareness of the unpredictability of the
outcomes of plans
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and
attempts to prevent unhappiness when things don't work out exactly as planned,
i.e., "You can plan but don't plan the outcome." The people who come
to Twelve Step Programs are often in a hurry, they're looking for a quick fix
for a chronic problem. American health care is pretty good at things that can
be fixed quickly. Rehabilitation medicine is a different story, slower, less
glamorous, more painstaking, with the need for more patience. This different
orientation to time can be a stumbling block.
April was a 29 y.o., alcohol, cocaine and marijuana
dependent woman, divorced, a high school graduate, with a child in foster care,
living in a women's recovery home. She was very anxious about the future,
particularly what would happen to her young daughter. For her the idea of
living a day at a time seemed unreasonable, and her main concern was getting
out of the recovery home, getting a job and resuming life with her child. Since
this was not her first attempt at recovery, she had been in one form or another
of chemical dependency treatment on six occasions, she was at some level also
aware that she lacked recovery and living skills. April entered into a contract
with staff that first involved relaxation training. Progressive relaxation was
selected as the method of relaxation because it gave April a significant
measure of control and felt to her, "Sort of like a work out." She
reported that progressive relaxation successfully reduced her anxiety level. In
addition to daily attendance at meetings, both in the recovery home and in the
community, April established daily written goals, e.g., daily review of the
newspaper for jobs, a certain number of calls and interviews, completing her house
responsibilities, as well as a written list of long term goals: job, apartment,
living with her daughter. The strategy offered April was that by consistent
work on her recovery and daily goals she would maximize her ability to achieve
her long-term goals. In addition, to the reduction in anxiety, she reported
that she frequently became productively immersed in her daily routine and could
reduce anxiety by thinking about releasing muscle tension and her
"strategy." She reported that for the first time she thought she was
really living "a day at a time."
9. Loss of Control
Chemically
dependent people, over the course of their illness, often experience
progressively more dramatic instances of loss of control over their use, which
invariably are correlated with more dramatic, adverse consequences. Despite
this evidence they fight the notion that they cannot control their use.
Chemically dependent people, who want to be like "normal" like other
people, think they may discover a method which will allow them to "use in
safety." In the Twelve Step Model recovery begins when the drug dependent
person acknowledges the inability to control use. Many slogans and sayings
address this issue and many of them are quite humorous.
Carlos was a Spanish speaker for whom English was a second
language. His alcohol and marijuana dependence had produced numerous negative
consequences, including a recent criminal charge of possession with intent to
distribute, for which he was on probation and mandated to outpatient treatment.
He came to group one evening perplexed by
something he had heard at the A.A.
meeting he had attended that week. He said that the
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speaker
said something like, "When I drink I break out in spots." and he wanted
to know what that meant. Was there some kind of skin condition associated with
drinking? The group laughingly explained to Carlos that the speaker must have
meant that when he used alcohol he ended up in blackouts travelling to places
he hadn't intended to travel to. This was particularly meaningful for Carlos
because he had ended up living in the Northeast because his drinking and drug
use had hooked him up with some itinerant kitchen laborers who finally stopped
wandering when they got jobs in Boston. Carlos too was a victim of the
unpredictability of a drinking life style and he began to see that. The slogan
"When I drink I break out in spots." and his misunderstanding of it
became part of his story.
10.
The issue of Acceptance of Help
From
a Twelve Step perspective the chemically dependent person needs to recognize
the loss of control over alcohol and other drug use, as well as, their
inability to deal with their use disorder themselves and therefore the need for
help from outside the self. All of these issues involve the acknowledgement of
loss of control and acceptance of help. Clients need to learn that accepting
help from others can be viewed as a skill and we can evaluate the need for help
based on how successful we are at the particular activity in question. And as
they make progress they can get feedback from their own performance and from
other's evaluation of their performance and then adjust their behavior. This
involves a student teacher relationship, a coaching relationship or a mentoring
relationship: '
Steve
was a surgeon who had been disciplined by the state board of medicine for
incidents involving excessive use of alcohol. Steve was very self confident and
intelligent and resented anyone telling him what to do. He was also very
invested in his status as a physician and had trouble listening to people who
were not physicians or at least other highly credentialled professionals. Steve
attended A.A., it was part of his contract with the board of registration, but
felt it was a waste of his time and quite beneath him. Steve also attended a
support group for physicians, dentists and other doctoral level health care
professionals where he felt more comfortable. One evening when Steve was
expressing his discontent another physician-surgeon said, "When I was
using I thought I was the best surgeon on the planet. Sometimes you need that
kind of confidence, but I was beginning to make mistakes and I had a close call
with a patient and shortly thereafter my partners intervened on me. I went to
treatment and when I returned to the practice my partners said, `That was like
medical school, now we're going to apprentice you to Eddie M. and he's going to
teach you what it takes to stay sober and live sober. You'll do what Eddie says
or you can find a new medical group.' Of course I was pissed but I felt trapped
and Eddie turned out to be a genial old guy who simply said, `Look Doc get out
of the driver's seat for 90 days. We'll travel around together and I'll show
you how it works.' I did that I "Got out of the driver's seat." and
despite myself I learned from Eddie just the things I needed to know, it was
like being a resident all over again just that the hours and the coffee were
better." Steve said that was a turning point of sorts for him, the idea
that recovery was about learning a new set of skills was what he needed to
hear.
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11. The Self and Being Alone
Twelve Step oriented therapies offer the opportunity for
intense, structured, community experience within a sub-culture. This contrasts
with the common implicit assumption "I can do it myself." This may
involve inpatient treatment programs of varying duration from detoxification to
multi-month programs. A.A. itself, to which an individual often is referred,
has a "program" which is comprised of the Twelve Steps and the Twelve
Step work which they encompass, both on a daily and long term basis. Such
programs like the Alcoholics Anonymous Way of Life (AAWOL) programs may be
quite formal and institutionalized. There are then various types of meetings
both for the general recovering community, e.g. open meetings, discussion
meetings, and meetings specialized by sub-group, e.g., men women, gays, etc. In
addition, there is the "fellowship" of A.A., the communal structures
which include numerous informal contacts, e.g., extensive phone networks,
socializing over coffee or meals, group anniversaries and other communal
celebrations, retreats, travel to and from meetings, shared living space, and
special interest groups such as recovering Harley Davidson riders etc. The
emphasis is on community and the necessity of a community that endorses and
emphasizes abstinence and recovery. The individual may participate in as much
or as little of this sub-culture as he needs or wishes.
In early recovery A.A. suggests immersing the individual
in this subculture which "holds" the person until he has developed a
stable recovery. Tom reported in group that he heard someone say at a meeting,
"When you're alone you're in bad company." He related the following
reaction, "This expression really annoyed me when I first heard it and my
sponsor repeated it to me. Today I know that even though I'm still sick, when I
heard it I was very sick and left to my own devices I would have been overcome
by my illness in a short time. Naturally I argued because I didn't understand,
but mostly because I still wanted to drink and drug which I went ahead and did
anyway, but I could only do it by isolating myself from other A.A,s and they
persisted by calling me or actually coming by the house. I needed people around
me to keep me sober, to keep me from drinking and drugging, to teach me about
living sober until I could acquire enough skills to occasionally be by myself
in safety. Eventually, A.A. gave me the wonderful luxury of being able to be
alone with myself and enjoy my self. Today I am aware that I need other people
and should not remain isolated from people who understand me, lest the illness
rear its ugly head." The group discussion about self and others that
followed his comments was stimulating and productive.
12. A Higher Power
Twelve Step
programs are overtly spiritual in their emphasis and frequently reference God.
Nevertheless, individuals who are agnostic or atheist can and do benefit from
the great flexibility and inclusiveness found in actual A.A. practice.
Frequently, for example, the A.A. group is offered as a power greater than the
individual and therefore an appropriate substitute for a higher power.
Sometimes the sponsor, the initial mentor in A.A. or N.A., is identified as the
higher power. Or the notion of spirituality is broadly interpreted to include
any ethical or philosophical tradition that fosters positive personal
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growth and development. Twelve Step programs usually
bend over backwards to make it easy for the newcomer to enter the system.
Nowhere is this flexibility clearer than in the re-framing of the word God in
the following case vignette.
Joe
was quite hostile to the idea of God when he finally became willing to explore
A.A. He would not say the "Our Father", a prayer that typically
closes A.A. and N.A. meetings, nor the "Serenity Prayer." He
expressed his belief that "higher power" was simply a thinly
disguised euphemism for God. Joe was so desperate as a result of the adverse
consequences of his alcohol and other drug use that he continued to
participate. He realized that many of the people he met were similar to himself
and they were able to stop using. He needed, and to some extent wanted, to stop
use too. But he struggled with God until at one meeting a man with whom he
identified was speaking about a similar problem. He talked about how he didn't
believe in God, didn't want to hear about God nor the higher power. He said
that someone said, "If you put periods in the word G.O.D. it really can
simply stand for group of drunks or group of druggies. Let a group of drunks be
your higher power. How about that?" Joe said that was one of those eureka
moments in two ways. First, the idea worked for him. He could relate to the
idea that individuals who had learned to stay sober could help. Second, he
perceived how hard people in A.A. tried to make the program fit the needs of
the individual alcoholic and he felt very grateful for that thoughtfulness.
Conclusion
Slogans
and sayings from Twelve Step programs provide an additional tool in the
clinical armamentarium. They have the advantage of emerging from the context
and experience of Twelve Step programs and offer the therapist rapid insight
into the issues Twelve Step programs have historically regarded as important to
recovery. Slogans and sayings challenge destructive cognitions and offer
behavioral strategies. Such slogans and sayings stimulate group discussion and
serve as easy to remember symbols of more complex topics. On occasion they
appear to produce rapid insight in clients about some recovery issue. In
addition, they often have a wry, good humored flavor that make sensitive topics
more palatable.
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